Get Him to Fall in Love - Four Ways to Capture His Heart by Gillian Reynolds

Once we meet a man and we believe he may be the one for us we'll stop short of nothing to get him to want us as much as we want him. Trying to get him to fall in love with you may seem like something better left to fate or chance. It's not. You have to be proactive when it comes to fulfilling your heart's desires. If you want the man, go get the man. There are actually different ways you can make this happen. Once you understand how to get inside his heart and make it your own, he'll be yours forever.

Here are four ways to capture his heart forever:

Embrace and accept all of him. No one is perfect. That's just a fact of life. There will be things about your guy that you'll think to yourself you'll be able to change once you two are in an established relationship. You may even make a few small suggestions now if you're not crazy about the way he wears his hair or his clothing. Keep any and all criticisms to yourself. Instead, accept him exactly the way he is. Everyone wants to find a partner who does this, so be that to him. He'll find you refreshing and he'll feel incredibly close to you because he'll know that you love him just as he is.

Take a strong interest in his life. Don't become a stalker. You should, however, be interested in what's going on with him. If he tells you a story about something that went on at work, remember the fine details. Bring them up later and he'll be impressed you remembered. He wants and needs to feel you are invested in what's going on with him. That will show him that you deem him incredibly important.

Give him his freedom. Early in your relationship don't try and monopolize all his time. He needs to feel that you treasure the time you two do spend together but it's not the end all and be all of your existence. Don't make a big deal out of it if he has plans with his friends or he has to bow out of dinner with you so he can turn in early. Give him some space and let him come to you. Men prefer it that way.

Be honest, always. A man never wants to feel as though the woman he's with is being disingenuous with him. He wants to know that she's exactly who she presents herself to be. Always be honest with him even if you know your opinion on something won't match his. It's okay to be different, as long as you're being 100% genuine and real.

Once you understand how to appeal to a man's heart, you can establish a lasting and unwavering connection with him. Love doesn't come along everyday so if you want him, make sure you get him.