Get Your Ex Boyfriend to Call You - The Simplest Way to Get Him to Reach Out to You by Gillian Reynolds

Wouldn't life be so much easier if you could just will your ex boyfriend to come running back, professing his undying love and devotion for you? Of course, it would be. Unfortunately, it's just not that easy. Even trying to get your ex boyfriend to call you is a challenge. If you long for a future with him again, you've got to stop wishing that things would change, and make that happen. When it comes to getting your ex to call, it's not nearly as complicated as you may believe it is. You really just need to do one thing and if you're patient, he'll call.

If you want to get your ex boyfriend to call you, you need to stop talking to the man. Each and every time you call him, run into him accidentally in front of his place, or text message him, you're hurting your chances of getting him back. Men and women respond to a break up in very different ways. For us, all we need and want is a chance to talk to our ex. We believe that we have the verbal power to convince him to come back, so we keep trying. That's the reason why so many women spend so much time stalking their ex boyfriends after the break up. We believe that we'll be able to break him down if we try enough and he'll come back. Unfortunately, it never works that way.

Once you accept that he's not your boyfriend right now, you'll have a better chance of winning back his love. The man has yet to experience his life without you. You're not giving him that opportunity. You need to. You have to somehow muster up the willpower to drop out of his life for a bit. Give it at minimum a couple of weeks.

Curiosity will eventually get the better of your ex and he'll call to see what you've been up to. During the time when you two aren't talking he'll have had the opportunity to do some thinking about whether or not he wants to move forward without you. This time apart is often enough to convince a man that he's making the biggest mistake of his life.

Always remember that what you feel after a break up and what your ex feels may not be on the same page. He actually does need some time away from you to sort through what he's feeling and you have to give him that. The women who can give their ex time and space are the women who typically find themselves back with their ex boyfriends after a few weeks apart. Be strong and silent and he'll rethink the break up.