суббота, 24 апреля 2010 г.

How To Stay Safe When Experimenting With Bondage.    by suzlar

Sometimes it can be hard to keep a relationship feeling fresh and exciting; especially after a few years and things can get monotonous. When you first get together with someone you experience all the rushes of a new relationship; the excitement, passion and the feeling that you just can't get enough of each other. After a few years of a relationship, you will know everything about your other half and it can be hard to recreate the passion and impulsiveness of the first stages of your relationship. Of course you don't love each other any less but you just need a little boost. Experimenting with bondage could be the answer! The immediate reaction when most people hear about bondage is to associate it with something that is wrong and even dirty. This really is not the case, many people don't fully understand the basics of bondage and therefore they feel intimidated and unsure when they think about it. Another common misconception is that a relationship that needs something like bondage to keep it going is already failed. This simply is not the case, it is perfectly normal that after a few years things in the bedroom may dwindle. Experimenting with bondage is a way of revealing another side of yourself to your partner and injecting some excitement back into the relationship; above all it is perfectly normal. If you decide to start experimenting with bondage then it is important to know how to stay safe. Just as you will need to master the basics of bondage, you must also master the safety tips. Bondage is a perfectly safe activity when conducted between sober, trusted partners who are fully aware of the risks involved and the precautions necessary to ensure safety. You may want to think twice about introducing bondage into the early stages of a new relationship unless you know that the other person will be up for it. Bondage can freak some people out so it is best to use in within a safe environment and with a partner that you trust.

It is a good idea to decide on a "safe word" or some clear action or gesture that will indicate a wish to stop or genuine distress before starting. This will mean that if things go a bit far or if one of you is uncomfortable with what is happening then you can stop temporarily or completely. You should never leave a bound person alone as this can be dangerous and potentially very distressing for them. You should avoid tying someone up with a scarf or tights as these restraints can become too tight and cause circulatory problems. Instead use either cotton or a nylon rope. Some people prefer hemp rope which can be purchased from speciality bondage shops online. The rope should never cause discomfort so do not tie to tightly. A good way of measuring this is to make sure that you can fit one or two fingers between the skin and restraints at all times.

It is a good idea to keep scissors nearby in case you need to get your other half out quickly. You should always remain sober and never mix bondage with alcohol or drugs as this can cause serious injuries. Most of all experimenting with bondage should be fun and exciting and if you follow these simple precautions then it will be fun every time!

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