Ways to Win Her Back and Keep Her by Gillian Reynolds

If you're still madly in love with your ex, you're likely looking for ways to win her back and keep her. It's unfortunate that we all don't have a crystal ball so we can see into the future. If you would have had that during the relationship you may have been able to avoid things falling apart. That's not how life is though and now you're left to try and find a way to make her realize what she has lost in you. It's possible if you understand that the way to appeal to a woman after a break up is much different than the way to appeal to a man. You've got to approach her in a very specific way if you're hoping to regain the lost connection with your ex girlfriend.

One of the best ways to win her back is to make amends for what lead to the break up in the first place. Couples sometimes struggle with issues for months and this leaves their relationship strained. It will eventually break into two and when that happens a split is inevitable. Apologizing to your ex girlfriend is essential for getting her back. Be genuine when you tell her you're sorry and let her see that you do have some deep regret. Whatever you believe you were doing to add to the break up has to be changed now. You need to work on improving the boyfriend you were so she'll see the positive changes and find you desirable again.

If you and your ex girlfriend shared a group of friends, look to them to help you reconnect with her. One of the ways to win her back and keep her is to show her that you can be a friend to her. It's best to not try and get her to hang out with you alone. She'll probably feel cornered by this and refuse. It's much more effective to have some friends arrange a get together and make sure she's attending. You can be there as well. Be happy and let her see that you're okay and moving forward after the break up. Women are drawn to emotionally strong men and if your ex sees that you're stable enough to handle seeing her after the split, she'll find that appealing.

Let her know that you'll always be there to support her and help her in any way you can. If a man is kind and considerate after a break up, as opposed to being vindictive or rude, it makes a huge difference. She'll understand that you only have her best interests at heart and that will mean a great deal to her. She'll learn to open up to you again and that will help to pave the way for the two of you to be together once more.