What if He's Cheating - 3 Ways to Know for Sure by TW Jackson

Do you have doubts every time your boyfriend leaves the house? Do you believe, deep down inside that he's stepping out on you? Is the suspense and not worry taking a toll on your mental health and in your confidence in the relationship as a whole? It's not that uncommon. Sometimes this is just a case of uncertainty or insecurity. Most of the time though, if there is a lot of smoke, there might be some degree of fire. Specifically, if these three signs are present then there is a chance that he is cheating on you.

1) You see it with your own eyes. This is often the most painful method for finding out that he is seeing someone else but in many ways it's also the easiest to digest. There is something about seeing it with your own eyes that makes it real and brings it home. It isn't pleasant and it's not something that most women ever want to see but sometimes that's the only way to know for sure no matter how much you suspect it may be the case.

2) His behavior changes drastically with no obvious reason. It's one thing to get a new lease on life after beating cancer or if someone close to him dies. Major changes at times like these are expected. When there are no obvious catalysts for change it becomes a greater concern and one of the biggest possible causes for change becomes another woman in his life. Some of the changes this could include are: new taste in clothes, sudden attentiveness to appearance, and a sudden obsession with showers and/or cleanliness.

3) The other woman comes calling. Sometimes, the other woman is a little pushy and wants to take your place. The good news in a case where she is the one coming to you (if you can consider anything about this good at all) is that he hasn't left you if she's the one coming to confront you. He may not even know she's seeing you. The problem is that most men are not interested in starting a life with the other woman. The other woman doesn't always understand this key bit of information and sometimes will actually convince herself that she's doing you a favor (all the while believing that she's doing the larger favor for herself) by letting you know. Consider the source and then go to your boyfriend to get all the facts.