How to Hook a Man - Hook Line and Sinker by Gillian Reynolds

The question of how to hook a man is one that has been volleyed around since the beginning of time. All women wish there was a roadmap that would spell out for them the exact route to take to win a man's heart. For most of us we rely on our limited insight to try and get a man to love us. That doesn't always end up the way we want. If there's a man that you absolutely must have, don't leave it to chance this time. There are plenty of ways you can not only hook his heart, but reel it in and keep it forever.

Learning how to hook a man includes recognizing that you have to ooze self confidence. We've all heard this and many women just can't seem to master it. The key is to embrace who you are, flaws and all. You don't want him to ever hear you excusing the things about yourself that you find unappealing. Nothing turns a man off faster than a woman who meets him for dinner, doesn't eat barely anything and complains the entire time of the weight she needs to lose. Any man would be much more attracted to a woman who came to dinner, dressed to the nines and had confidence shining through her smile. Love who you are now and he'll love you more for it.

Another thing you need to always keep in mind when you are focused on how to hook a man is be different. Don't try and conform into what you think he wants you to be. If he is a huge sports fan that doesn't mean you have to suddenly brush up on who the star football players of the day are. Men are used to women who do this. They want someone who is honest, direct and fun. State your opinion when he asks you, even if it's opposite of his. Always be yourself and never compromise for anyone. Most women aren't like this and it's what men want. Show him that you're unlike anyone he's ever met before.

Being able to roll with the punches is essential if you want to hook a man. If you two planned on dinner at an extravagant restaurant and now he wants to have burgers at home, embrace that. He wants you to be someone who can change her mind at the last minute and be happy about it. If you view your time together as most important and the things you do together as secondary, that will become apparent to him quickly. Men don't want to be with women who make them feel guilty about plans changing or cancellations. Go with the flow when it comes to dating him. Relax and enjoy it and that will shine through to him and he'll find you irresistible.