Will he ever commit to you? You may be wondering this exact same thing if you're in a long term dating relationship. Most women want a proposal at some point, followed by their dream wedding. If the man you're in love with hasn't even mentioned the idea of marriage yet and you've been dating for some time, that has to be a concern. Talking to him about it may get you no where. Commitment phobic men just aren't that willing to confess their desire not to get married. There are some signs you can look for that if present, in his behavior, do indicate that he's on the path towards a proposal. If you spot any of these you can take comfort in knowing that he is definitely considering marriage too.
Five signs that he's going to commit to you are:
He talks about the future in terms of you two as a couple. The way a man speaks about the future is a sure sign of where his heart is. If he talks about things you two will be doing down the road and it's always about the two of you, not him as an individual, he's thinking about being with you for the long term. Listen for words like "us" and "we" when he's speaking. He sees you as part of his life and that's a really good thing.
He spends more time with you than anyone else. Men are interesting in that when they fall in love, they fall very hard. They'll forgo friendships and opportunities to be with their woman. If he loves being around you and is always trying to get more and more time together, that's a good sign that he sees you as the one.
He doesn't shut down when you talk about the future. Nothing is more discouraging to a woman who wants an engagement ring than a man who changes the subject if it's brought up. If you try and talk about things like a wedding, children or the future in general, and he'll immediately start talking about something unrelated, that's not promising at all. A man who is considering a serious commitment, won't shy away from it. He'll embrace discussing it.
He's open about the fact that he loves you. If a man is waffling on the idea of being committed to someone they won't ever say they're in a relationship. They want to keep their options open so they instead say they're dating or just seeing someone. If your boyfriend tells people that he loves you or that he's crazy about you, take comfort in that. He's proud of loving you and that's a very good thing.
You live together already or he wants to. Most single men enjoy and relish their own space. They aren't willing to share it with a woman unless they feel incredibly close to her. If you two are already sharing a home or if he has been pressuring you into moving in with him, a proposal is definitely in your future.
Not all men progress towards commitment at the same pace. If you see some signs that he will commit, let patience be your guide. If you love him, waiting a little longer is well worth it.
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